Separation Anxiety Disorder

• Separation Anxiety Disorder

  is a condition that causes intense fear or distress when a child is away from a parent or caregiver. While it is common for young children to feel uneasy during brief separations, separation anxiety disorder goes beyond typical clinginess and can significantly affect daily life.

What is Separation Anxiety Disorder?

Separation anxiety is a normal stage of development, especially in toddlers and preschoolers. However, when anxiety becomes severe, persistent, and interferes with normal activities, it may be diagnosed as separation anxiety disorder.

This condition often begins before the age of six and can last for months if left untreated.

Signs of Separation Anxiety Disorder in Children

Every child is unique, but common signs include:

• Extreme distress when anticipating or experiencing separation
• Persistent worry about losing a parent or something bad happening
• Refusal to go to school, childcare, or sleep alone
• Repeated nightmares about separation
• Complaints of headaches, stomachaches, or other physical symptoms when separation is expected

If these behaviours last for at least four weeks and interfere with school or social life, professional support is recommended.

Causes and Risk Factors

Separation anxiety disorder in children can be influenced by a combination of factors:

• Family history of anxiety disorders
• Stressful life events, such as moving house or loss of a loved one
• Overprotective parenting styles
• Changes in routine or environment

Remember, no one is to blame—this is a treatable condition, and help is available.

Treatment and Support

Early intervention makes a significant difference. Effective treatment may include:

In some cases, a child psychologist may also recommend play therapy or relaxation techniques to support emotional regulation.

• Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

  CBT teaches children to manage anxious thoughts, gradually face feared situations, and build confidence.

• Parent Coaching

  Guidance for parents helps create consistent routines and reduce unhelpful patterns like excessive reassurance.

• School Support

  Collaboration with teachers ensures a smooth transition during drop-offs and helps maintain attendance.

When to Seek Help

If your child’s fears are preventing them from attending school, making friends, or enjoying daily life, it’s time to reach out for professional guidance.

At Maudsley Health in Abu Dhabi, our experienced psychologists specialise in assessing and treating separation anxiety disorder in children with compassionate, evidence-based care.

Take the First Step Toward Reassurance

You don’t have to navigate separation anxiety alone. Early support can empower your child to feel secure and thrive, even when apart from you.

Contact Maudsley Health today to schedule an assessment and learn more about how we can help you and your child overcome separation anxiety disorder together.